Self-assessment for Dream Crafters

Your time inventory

Take a minute to check how you spend your time every week.

During the hours of the day:

• I single-handedly save the world in my job. How come I can’t save myself?!

• I run in automatic, from one errand to the other. At the end of the day I feel like a squeezed rag. Why do I still feel that I haven’t done enough?!

• I work in a satisfying job, but I’m not realizing my full potential. There’s a career move I’ve been wanting to do for years. I successfully manage my company’s complex projects. How come I can’t develop my own?
   

• I love my job, but I have a dream inside me, one that would use my talents and passions to bring me passive income and set me free of the dollars-per-hour slavery. But…

 You may be suffering from a Prohibition to DO what you want. You may feel guilty or selfish. You may be suffering from a war between Self vs. Others. Check the Bless your Success Program and give yourself Permission to Succeed.

How about after work?

• I watch Sex in the City and The Sopranos. (Or your favorite shows).

• After I cook and do homework with the kids, I am so exhausted that I go to bed, where I fall asleep fantasizing about living my dream.
   

• I go out to disco or dinner with my friends. Isn’t all that noise excitement enough?

• I talk with my mom, my sister and my many relatives about all their problems, until I feel that I am Mother Theresa, but hang up with a migraine.
   

• I give my friends excellent advice that I myself don’t follow.

• I get into the internet and spend hours in Googleland.

• I read about characters who live the meaningful, exciting, adventurous life I don’t have.

• I have an amazingly active social life on behalf of my causes and passions. I organize activities, help organizations and present at many activities. How come I still feel alone, unsuccessful and how come none of those activities allows me to do my purpose full time or puts food on my table? Humm. There’s something that doesn’t add up here.
   

You may be suffering from a Prohibition to be loved just as you are, without sacrificing your dreams or yourself in order to be accepted. You may also be a Community Leader, a type of leadership that grows by organizing actions and organizations for collective empowerment. But if you have a war between Self vs. Others, you do things for others while sacrificing yourself. You are a divided house! Check the Bless your Success Program and give yourself Permission to loved and to include your own needs and goals in your Community Leadership.

How about Saturday?
 

• I clean the house like a mad woman. If I could only scrub off my frustration!

• I go out shopping with my friends. I believe in shopping therapy.

• Saturday is the only day I have to do laundry, clean and shop for food. 

• I rest because I am exhausted from partying on Friday night.

• I take the kids out to ballet, games and wherever they want to go.

• I run around doing favors and taking care of friends and family.

• I work out in the gym to sweat off the extra pounds.

• I’m booked for Saturdays on end. Lots of activities, causes, presentations. No time to think, plan, strategize… or write that book, do that project, etc…. The thing is… none of those activities allows me to gather my gifts and talents in a way that I can build a practice and earn a living from this. Why not? Why is everything so fragmented?

• I waste even more time. Don’t ask me how.

 Time is a gift. It is the gift of life. Priorities, structure and discipline are the Sacred Masculine skills that allow you to use the gift of time towards your souls’ purpose, your self-care and your dreams. In this case, your Knight (Sacred Masculine Archetype in women) is not championing your Queen (You soul and Sacred Feminine), and your Queen is playing Cinderella. You need the wisdom to Rewrite your Fairy Tales for Success to release the “curses” you are still carrying and become the Queen of your life. This ebook is also available as part of the Bless your Success Program.

Actionable Tip:

Step 1: Examine how many of these things make your life richer and give you a sense of genuine soul-felt fullness? Keep those.

Step 2: Now go back and check the rest. How many of these things bring you closer to your dream? How many help you to be, rest and take care of yourself? Keep those.

Step 3: How many of these things are a waste of your time, distractions and busyness that leads nowhere? Release those habits and activities. Scratch them from your calendar. Refuse to engage in them.

You may do it gradually or cold turkey. It’s up to you. But clear the time and space to become the Queen of your life, or stay playing the servant girl. Your choice!

You already know what will happen if you keep doing what you are doing so far. After the initial satisfaction, you feel disappointed with yourself. “Why didn’t I write my book? Why didn’t I develop that idea? Why didn’t I take that coaching to address my obstacle? Why didn’t I just rest, for God’s sake? Why didn’t I…” you fill in the blanks.

Once more you have placed yourself in the backburner.

• What if you could go to the bottom of all this? What if you could find the hidden emotional prohibitions that are not allowing you to step into your authority and greatness?
   

• What if you could borrow power from a Woman of Power who could help you nurture that dream into reality?
   

• What if you could do simple, fun and creative acts that magically summon the resources and allies you need to manifest your dream?

You can!

If you have a strong sense of what you want your life to be like, but something is holding you back and you need to give yourself emotional permission to go for it, Enroll in the Bless your Success Program.

You will get rich insights, powerful tools and my ongoing support for eight months. I’ll be there with you every month in ceremonial role as your Fairy Godmother to give you the permissions and blessings you need for your success.

Go here: http://dreamcrossover.com/bless-your-success-program/

I will help you MAKE the time for your dream and begin to take back your life.