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July 2014  

Dear —

I often think of you. Are you going through something alone? The other day in a fabulous poetry reading of the Breaking Ground Poetry Anthology in New York, a friend told me that she felt lonely. It shocked me because she is such a popular person! So I thought of you. Are you lonely? Is my monthly letter getting to you? Have I made it clear that I’m here for you?

You are in my thoughts and my heart because you are the reason for my existence. I was born to inspire you, to champion your dreams, to egg you onto your freedom.

But I also wonder. Did you get the last story I wrote? Did it inspire you? I often receive replies telling me that something I wrote was God-sent, as if I was reading the person’s thoughts.

Reading of Breaking Ground Anthology, here with my poetry sistas!

And that’s what I want. I want to read your heart at a distance, so that I can write the exact story you need.

But lately I wonder if ~in my effort not to spam you~ I may have neglected you.

I know that I sent you the option of getting into the newsletters that respond to your goals, but many of you who told me that you wanted to MagicMark your life for several reasons have not really used the optional resources I offer. So I’m thinking. Am I in your mind when you need help? Inspiration? Guidance? Do you know that I’m here for you? Do you feel forgotten or neglected by me because I don’t send as many things as I used to?

We are so bombarded by noise, by grabbing hands that want our attention, our money, our time! I don’t want to grab you. I want to hug you. I want to hug you when you feel alone. I want to be there for you when you need support.

I look at the women around me and I know. Oh Goddess! How much we give. How present we are for others. But then, when it comes to ourselves, I see the vacant expression, the guilt. Some of us go running to look for some problem, just so that we do not have to take care of ourselves or God help us! …Build our own dreams.

 Do you relate?

 
 

A friend of mine who frequently complaints about her work and how overwhelming it can get surprised me the other day when she told me that it was the first day of her vacation, and she was depressed.

“Why?” I asked.

“I don’t know. I’m just down. I feel sad, lost. I don’t know what to do.”

 

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 We are so habituated to be there for others, but being there for ourselves may be unfamiliar. And when we cannot be there for ourselves, three things happen:

  • We are not available to our joy. We don’t know or don’t do the things that make us happy.
  • We steal our energy, attention and time from our dreams, life purpose, gifts and leadership. We don’t write that book, don’t finish that project.
  • We allow the Inner Thieves to steal our life, and we end up as the extra, someone who shows up in all the scenes doing stuff for the other people, who are the protagonists. Would you see that movie, where the protagonist only does things for others and is not shown as an important character in her own life? I wouldn’t! I she does not care about her life, why should I? Oh-oh!

Everything that I see reminds me of you. Everything that I hear reminds me of you. Are you going through a similar thing? And when I go through something, I ask myself if my story will help you.

My guess is that it does. Because you are my mirror.

There is a word in Mayan that I love:

“In ‘la ‘kesh”

It means “I am your other self. You are my other self. We are one.”

That is the magic of love, empathy and storytelling. In sharing my story, I bring you into your own story. In sharing my heart, I bring you into your heart.

And that is my ecstasy.

 Your words, that I treasure

 
 

When I receive feedback from you, I get all teary and cheery. I treasure them in a Treasure Box that I see whenever I need cheering, whenever I doubt if I’m doing a good job. Here’s some of the notes you’ve sent me lately:

Cricket loves poetry and she is subscribed to the Life is Poetry Newsletter, which includes a Poetry Writing Course. She read a poem I wrote and did her own poem using mine as a model. She wrote.

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“Your March 2012 ‘I Am’ Poem is so beautiful, Maria. Thank you! I love the symbolism you use. It ties everything together in a way that is freeing (what a dichotomy!). 

Where you say ‘I am a tiny drop in the vast ocean.’ It brings home both how insignificant we all are, yet how important to the whole. And where you wrote ‘I am enough; perfect, in fact, for the purpose for which I was created.’, it says it all. We are all where we are meant to be.

…You help us all realize that we are true alchemists. Thank you!”

Cricket Fox

  

Cricket’s poem

“A lower crawl to a higher dance

Each of us on our individual path

Ahh, delight in the journey

Fuse joy with light to make yourself whole.”

Here’s a note from Debra, who sent me flowers! I heard a knock on the door and there it was, a happy, gorgeous bouquet of flowers! Debra is an inspirer. Her heart is full of gratitude, and she wanted to express her gratitude, so she sent me flowers. There are no words to express the joy I felt. It made me feel received, that I am making a difference in your lives.

Here’s what Debra told me about the Story Bundle I prepared, “Love, Joy and Dreams” ~with three stories for those of you who love inspiration and stories.

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 Joy and the Goldfish is a beautiful & thrilling storybook! How a story can dive so deep inside and be so lively and entertaining at the same time is amazing. It will give you wisdom to change your life, along visual metaphor for getting and staying connected. Look forward to sharing it with granddaughters one day. Thank you, Maria Mar, for a wonderful experience with this story. JOY to the World…” Debra

 

  

That’s why I love you, sisters.

You are heart-smart, not just intelligent. You are connected to Soul and do not allow the noise and business of this world to steal your humanity, your deeply caring heart, your love for beauty and value.

And that’s why I am here for you. That’s why I think of you in every story I write and every journey I create. What is in my heart is: Will they love it? Will this free them from whatever limitations they are struggling with? Will this inspire them? Am I championing them as they need so that they can be their brilliance in the world?”

So keep your comments coming!

You know that I changed the newsletter to a letter (and now I’m changing it to a Love Letter) so that you could reply, so that we could come  closer and really, truly communicate.

Do you feel my love? You are not alone!

I personally read every word in every reply you send me.

And I personally respond to it.

What I built for you… with your help

 
And this brings me to my last point. I read your answers to the surveys, and I reflected deeply in what you told me; the reasons for MagicMarking your life, your dreams, challenges and preferences. And guess what happened?

I realized that you, my beautiful Tribe members, respond to eight very clear Dream Archetypes, and I have been studying what each of these archetypes wants and needs.

And I have created a new, from scratch Dream Alchemist website to fulfill your playful, soulful, creative, purposeful desires and needs.

So hop over to the brand new https://dreamalchemist.com and find out:

1. Why and how to MagicMark your Life, and

2. Which Dream Archetypes are you? (You can use the menu or just scroll down the main page to find out).

So now you know what I was doing in the quiet time, after my birthday, when I have not done the magazine and other things I usually do.

I’ve been thinking of you. I have been building a magical place where you can enter a story and step into your brilliance.

 

 
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Dare to Dream BIG and live it!

 

 

 

Maria Mar

The Dream Alchemist

PS. I’ve created a Tribal Treats section for you to get special treats only available for members. You’ll need to register once, so that you can login to the Tribe Treats. Register here.

  

I champion spiritual creative women to free their brilliance so that they illuminate the world with their presence. As a storyteller-shaman I do this by creating magical stories that are journeys and blueprints for you to break free of old limiting stories and write the new life story that gives body to your purpose and voice to your gifts.

Author of too many books and products to mention. Find them here.

Check out my forthcoming inspirational novel, Angelina and the Law of Attraction: A woman’s ride from her pressing problems to her brightest potential,

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